So! What does he really mean?

What does he really mean?

There are times when I wonder if men and women should be together at all. In spite of our need for each other women never understand men...

But wait a minute; it's not the language, we just say things in a totally different way.

Now for the benefit of all you girls out there here is a very helpful list of things we men say and what we really mean when we say them. It may even assist in my endeavours and aspirations for the Nobel peace prize.

1 I’m not ready for a relationship.(This is a classic)

He means: I am always ready for a relationship with the girl of my dreams. But unfortunately you are not the one. Wanna know how to become the woman of his dreams?!

2 I can’t forget my ex. Be careful here he is probably still seeing her.

He means if I against all odds I should say that- then I really haven’t forgotten her. Will never give you everything. I want to cover my bets by going for everything in the hope of winning something and not loosing anything. For your own good: leave me!
Strange this always makes you girls even keener to be the one who tames me.

3 We’ll keep in touch.

He means: This is an attempt to be a hard catch or to wriggle out. Wait at least three days before you get in touch and don’t even send a little sms.If you then decide to get in touch and are met with silence. I am not interested.

4 What are you up to? (A little sms 2 o clock in the morning).

He means: I’m head over heels in love with you, ready to tattoo your name on my arse, kiss your feet, worship you forever and wear your ring.

But if it’s a Saturday night at 2 am it means nothing more than” Fancy shag?”
It also means that I’m drunk and am not worth a light in bed.

5 Nice Jeans

He means and: lets not beat about the bush here, that you have a fantastic arse and would love to get his hands on it. Enough said.

6 I’ll call;

He means: and read my lips, “I will call you”. That means that I don’t want you to call me. If you call it gives the impression of you being over interested and if I want to call I will. But I would prefer to see you out somewhere.

7 I would never lie to you.

He means; Of course I would. But to be so bloody silly and confess to that would release a monster and endless discussions. I fib about small things like “you look great without make-up” to I was home all night (when I was out with the boys).
Nothing malicious meant other than an attempt to keep the peace.

8 Just friends?

He means: I’m not interested in you as a girl friend and I’m just saying it this way to make it easier. I have never managed to keep a girl as just a friend and this is a great way to drizzle away. But thanks for the sex.

9 What have I done wrong?

He means I have nothing better to say and don’t enjoy silence. Maybe I’ve made a complete jerk of myself or am completely innocent. You can also comfort me and tell me how much you care for me and see that I need reassurance. Look for the head drop and the pout.

10 That guy looked straight at you and smiled.

He means: Tell me that you only have eyes for me. I wouldn’t be bothered if the guy was drunk or ugly but he was a real hunk- and he undressed you with his eyes. Just convince me that you only want to be with me. You didn’t smile back did you? Why did he do that? Do you know him?

Well I hope that helps you girls to understand a little better. Just so we can make life easier.
We also don’t mind if you get a round of drinks from time to time. Become The Irresistible Woman today!

This research was carried out independently and has no bearing what so ever on my life or my experiences. You don’t really believe I would resort to this type of behaviour do you?

No I have kept myself above all this. Women and I have always had a complete understanding. Ask any of my seven wives and six hundred and twenty two girlfriends.

BC

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Just the other day and I haven't the faintest reason why, I was asked the most unanswered question in the world. No it wasn't who came first, the chicken or the egg. I dealt with that one already. I suppose for those of you that don’t know I had better get it out of the way first.The chicken and the egg had been making love. The chicken rolled over, lit a cigarette and sighed "ah well that’s answered that question".

Now, the other most requested information is "what makes the woman that men adore?"

Women actually do care enough to ask "what it is that captivates a man". This really took me some time before I could arrive at some form of answer. I mean with the exception of blind physical attraction there are other attributes that make some women stand head and shoulders above the rest.

I guess it depends on how warped the mans mind is but generally we want a partner for life and if that’s not possible at least one we can be proud of in any company. Blatant bad taste or flaunting of breasts is something that men deep down laugh at.

A woman who is stylish, elegant, articulate, erudite and beautiful wins hands down over the busty, giggly little tart type.
Men will go with this sort of woman in secret. But would rarely want to be seen with in smart company...I guess that’s true of women also in the reverse situation.

A woman that keeps herself enigmatic, who has the allure that you always want to find out more about is the one that the smart clever man will always go for. A woman who is loud with nothing to say is a turn off!

You women probably ask yourselves in your relationships; Why didn’t he call? Why do I always date losers? What I am I doing wrong? How can I find the right man? Etc. The answer is of course you get what you give off.
If you give the impression of being a tart you will get the man that wants a tart.

Men don’t want overly fashionable women! As fashion changes so will your relationship.
Style on the other hand never goes out of fashion.

Dare to be yourself rather than what someone on the reality shows tells you. If you are following "the fashions" too much then there are thousands with the same look. Make sense?

You have all seen that some women are the women that all men desire and want to be in love with. You all have it within you. It's not magic it's a skill that the most desirable women have learned. These kind of women know how to create the allure with the best men and know how to keep the mystery alive. If you havn't got it, don't worry anyone can learn it. I would suggest you get a copy of "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave" by Bob Grant.

Don’t spend your time asking your girl friends about your relationships or turning to the magazines. Just because your girl friend has had similar experiences doesn't mean her advice applies to you and remember the magazines are written for girls by girls. Ever thought about asking someone who really knows about these things? Too expensive to get advice professionally? Well it isn't!

Ever ask yourself why your boyfriend isn't talking to you? So you get on the phone to your friend wondering why you were getting the silent treatment and what you had done to provoke it and what you need to do to get him talking again. All this while the boyfriend was worrying about getting the car ready to take you out. Just shows how little you know about men.

There are three sentences that you should learn that will ensure that he cannot get you out of his mind.

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